Director's Letter: Mass Adoption Ceremony: Positive, Emotional Event
When you work in the
field of abused and neglected children, there are more bad days than
good.
Every child we work with
– nearly 17,000 last year – has a sad story behind them. Day after day
of hearing those stories can bring you down. Even 20 years after
starting in this business, I’m still regularly surprised by the horrific
experiences of these children. I’m always thankful we have the
opportunity to make a difference in their lives.
But this month, we will
have a day where the good far outweighs the bad. Nov. 22 will be a day
of celebration.
That day, seven families
will become whole. Fifteen children will lose the title “foster child”
and become just “son” or “daughter.”
Our 7th annual mass
adoption ceremony at Hamilton County Probate Court promises to be a
moving event. Children between the ages of 2 and 15 – all with histories
of abuse and neglect – will make their adoptions official.
There won’t be many dry
eyes in the courtroom. Finalizing an adoption is always the culmination
of a tremendous amount of work by our staff. Pairing a child with
specific needs with a family that can meet those needs is difficult. But
when you get it right, the reward is great.
We investigate more than
5,000 reports of abuse and neglect each year. In some cases, despite our
best efforts, we cannot safely reunite the children with their birth
parents. In those cases, the children become available for adoption.
We have nearly 200
children awaiting adoption. You can see their stories and watch their
videos on one of our websites,
www.hckids.org.
Most of our adoptions
happen because the foster parents who are caring for the children fall
in love with them and can’t imagine life without them. Children are like
that. They constantly tug at your heart. If you give them a chance, even
a slight chance, they can win you over.
We have had 70 adoptions
so far this year. On Nov. 22, we will add 15 more. If you would like to
watch it live, we will livestream it over U-Stream. Look for details
later this month on our website,
www.hcjfs.org.
Anyone willing to provide
a safe, loving home makes a good adoptive family. But successful
families generally share some of the same characteristics: they’re
family oriented, flexible, have strong support from family, friends and
neighbors, and can work as part of a team of professionals with the
children. An adoptive parent must:
- Be at least 18 years
of age
- Pass a physical to
show they are in good physical health and capable of caring for
children
- Pass a local, state
and federal (if not a resident of Ohio for the past five years)
background check
- Pass a home study
process (includes fire inspection as well as other rules and
regulations)
- Attend 36 hours of
specialized training designed to help with parenting
If you are interested,
visit www.hckids.org to learn more and feel
free to contact us by phone, (513) 946-1000, or e-mail,
adoption@jfs.hamilton-co.org.
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