Did you know? Approximately 190 Hamilton County children are waiting for adoption
In November, HCJFS
caseworkers celebrated as 13 children were adopted by seven loving
families in a mass adoption ceremony. Those 13 were just a small
portion of the children adopted by loving, devoted forever families this
year.
Despite these
successes, many children remain in HCJFS custody. We at HCJFS strive to
ensure each and every child
has a family to love them forever.
While the attention
on children in foster care continues to increase both locally and
nationally, many in the public have unanswered questions about the foster care system. In this special edition
of HCJFS Update, we want to answer some of the most common questions
about foster care adoption and share information from AdoptUSKids.org
about common adoption myths.
Myth: It’s easier and
faster to adopt internationally than from U.S. foster care
Reality*: In 2011, there
were 51,000 children adopted through U.S. foster care, while only 9,320
children were adopted by U.S. citizens from all international sources
combined.
New regulations governing
international adoptions have made adoption from other countries more
challenging for U.S. citizens. These regulations, which can be found on
the U.S. Department of State’s Intercountry Adoption website, are aimed
at protecting the rights of children and birth parents. When coupled with
more aggressive efforts to locate adoptive resources inside of countries
that have traditionally permitted their children to be sent abroad, the
result is a drop in international adoptions.
In most cases, it takes
roughly a year to adopt a child from the U.S. foster care system. The
average time it took in 2011 to complete an international adoption from
Hague Convention countries ranged from 79 days to almost two years.
In addition, most
adoptions from U.S. foster care are free or any minimal costs
are often reimbursable. For international adoptions
from
Hague Convention countries,
costs ranged from free to $64,357, with half of service providers charging less than
$26,559.
These statistics came
from the U.S. Children’s Bureau’s Preliminary 2011 Trends in Foster Care
Report (PDF – 677KB) and the U.S. Department of State’s
2011 Annual
Report on Intercountry Adoptions (PDF – 874KB).
Myth: You have to have a
lot of money and own a house to adopt from foster care
Reality: You don’t need
to own your own home or be wealthy to adopt. In Hamilton County, most
adoptions are free or have minimal court costs and fees -- most of
which may qualify for reimbursement. Some companies or
organizations also offer adoption reimbursements.
In addition, there are
many different types of
post-adoption resources, such as medical assistance and
financial adoption assistance, based on the special needs of a child, to
help support and sustain adoptions from the U.S. foster care system.*
For example, if you adopt a child
after their 13th birthday, those children will not have to include their
parents' income in their financial aid applications. And if you adopt a child
after their 16th birthday, they may be eligible for the Education and
Training Voucher Program. This program offers funds (up to $5,000 a
year) to foster youth and former foster youth to use for tuition, books or
qualified living expenses when they attend colleges, universities and
vocational training schools.
Families may also qualify
for a federal adoption tax credit if they adopt a child with special
needs. Families must simply provide documentation of the
state's adoption subsidy for the child as proof of special needs. The
tax credit maximum may change from year to year. Check with your tax
professional or visit www.irs.gov for more information.
In order to adopt through
Hamilton County, you must be 18 years old, have a bed available for the
child (if the child is going to share a bedroom, it must be with another
same-sex child), have income that meets your needs and the needs of the
child, pass a rigorous criminal background check and be in good mental,
emotional and physical shape.
Myth: Only married
couples with a stay-at-home parent can adopt children from foster care
Reality: In most
instances, a person’s marital status, age, income, or sexual orientation
are not used to disqualify them from adopting.
In 2011, 32 percent of children adopted from foster care in the U.S.
were matched with either a single-parent household or unmarried couple.
This includes adoptions by lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender
(LGBT) families. *
Myth: You have to be of
child-bearing age to adopt
Reality: Each year, many
Hamilton County children are adopted by parents who are also
grandparents and have full grown children.
Myth: You can’t adopt a
neighbor’s child or one you know personally or professionally
Reality: When a child is
removed from their home by a court order and is placed into U.S. foster
care, and then later becomes available for adoption (meaning their birth
parents’ rights have been legally terminated), a caseworker will often
explore connections the child already has with supportive adults in
their life as possible placements for adoption or foster care. This is
known as case-file mining and is a proven best practice in finding
temporary or permanent placements for children served by the U.S. foster
care system.*
Myth: The only way to
adopt in Hamilton County is through the website,
www.hckids.org
Reality: Most of the
children adopted each year in Hamilton County are adopted by their
foster parents. We encourage anyone considering adoption in Hamilton
County to also consider becoming a foster parent.
Fostering-to-adopt has a number of advantages, including the chance to
live with and fall in love with the children before making the commitment to
adopt. Foster-to-adoption is also a good option for parents who are
looking to adopt an infant or toddler, since foster parents get first
priority when a child becomes available for adoption.
Myth: If you want to
adopt through foster care, you have to be a foster parent first
Reality: While becoming a
foster parent first is an option, and one we often encourage, it is not
necessary. All of the children listed on our website,
www.hckids.org, are
already in the permanent custody of Hamilton County Job and Family
Services and looking for a forever family.
Myth: A birth parent or
another relative can take an adopted child back
Reality*: Adoptions of
children from U.S. foster care are legally binding agreements that do
not occur until the rights of all parents have been legally terminated
by a court of law. It’s very rare that an adoption is challenged in
court by a child’s birth relative. More than 98 percent of legally
completed adoptions remain intact.
As for a child in foster
care having continued contact with their birth family, it will vary
depending on the specifics of the case and the placement being
considered for the child.
- For adoptive
placements, very few birth parents reappear after their parental
rights have been legally terminated. In the instances where children
have continued relationships with birth relatives, it’s because the
arrangement will be beneficial, safe and healthy for all involved.
- For foster care
placements, most children placed in your home will have regular,
court-ordered visits with their birth parents. This is an important
part of the reunification process and you play an important role by
working with the child’s caseworker to decide the location and time
of the visits. The court decides whether the visits will be
supervised.
Myth: Adopting an older
child is dangerous and parents won’t have as much time to bond
Reality: Children in
foster care, through no fault of their own, had to
be removed from their families due to abusive or neglectful situations.
While all of our children have experienced some level of abuse or
neglect, they also are children who love to laugh and play, have favorite
toys and friends, and have hopes and dreams for their futures –
especially for permanent, loving and committed parents.
By adopting an older
child you also have a chance to share interests more quickly like
camping, traveling, music or sports.
*Information with an
asterisk was provided by AdoptUsKids.org
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